Learning To See By Traveling With a Teddy Bear
Learning to see by Traveling
With a Teddy Bear
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by
learning to see an imperfect person perfectly" Sam Keen
This week, I had the pleasure of going to Knoxville to film
two segments with the NBC station. One segment included my
daughter. We had one long 9-hour-day of travel, then a day
of filming, and then a day of travel to return home. She
held up like a trooper, constantly assisting me in every way
she could.
Of course, as all travel with children includes, there was a
challenge or two. First, her last molar decided to come
loose. In one hand I held my notes and in the other I held a
tube of Orajel. It was always at the most opportune times
that the pain would come--while juggling four bags through
security, five seconds prior to going live on
television--you mothers know how this works. (And for the
non-moms reading - the moral and message of this column
applies to you so keep reading!)
The last challenge of the trip came the day we left. We had
purchased a teddy bear on the way down and Sammy deemed it
the most special bear she had ever had. Every night she
tucked it in, complete with back rub. She searched a name
database on the internet and the bear was named Max Cuddles
Arto Bongo Whispers.
When I went to pack, I couldn't put Max Cuddles Arto Bongo
Whispers in a suitcase as he might suffocate. So we left him
on the chair, safely tucked in a blanky as I proceeded to
pack our bags. You can probably guess what happened next. We
arrived at the airport 60 minutes prior to our departure,
returned the rental car, checked in, only to realize Max
Cuddles Arto Bongo Whispers was not with us.
My daughter who had traveled well up to that point, just
about broke down. A companion traveling with us pointed out
that worst case we would be passing the same store on the
way back. Needles to say, my daughter looked at me in
horror.
Thinking quickly, I called the hotel to see if the
housekeeper could locate the bear. In five minutes the front
desk called me back assuring me that the housekeeper had
looked under the bed and in the blankets and there was no
bear. I disputed this finding, explaining that we had just
left, and the bear was definitely there. The woman at the
front desk said she would go look and call me back. In
another 5 minutes my cell rang. She had found Max Cuddles
Arto Bongo Whispers. I asked her to call a cab and have the
bear raced to our airline terminal. We were now about 45
minutes away from our departure time, had not yet gone
through security, and the hotel was 20 minutes away.
As our flight drew nearer, our travel companion urged me and
Sammy to go through security saying she would wait for the
bear and if someone was going to miss a flight at least
Sammy and I would travel together. Within minutes of that
conversation, a large mini-van cab arrived with Max Cuddles
Arto Bongo Whispers in the passenger seat. (I imagine he had
fun telling people about his interesting passenger of the
day!)
We raced through security (with only one stop for Orajel)
and made it to our gate just as they were doing the final
boarding call.
Later that day, my travel companion re-hashed the morning.
She is a dear friend who has known me for many years--and
also knows my weaknesses well. One of my weaknesses has
always been patience. She paid me a sincere compliment on
the patience I had developed during my 10 years so far as a
mother. I explained that you get a special gene for that at
some point during pregnancy.
As I thought back about the adventure of traveling teddy
this morning, I realized why the story is so special to me,
and it really doesn't have anything to do with patience or
motherhood.
What happened when Max Cuddles Arto Bongo Whispers was lost
was that a 10 year old saw this as a tragedy. While you and
I know, it was simply a stuffed bear that will likely end up
ragged and forgotten in a toy chest within a few years, in
that moment Sammy saw the event much differently.
Instead of seeing it through my 31-year-old eyes, and
choosing Fed-Ex service or replacing the bear, I saw it
through her eyes. And then I used the resources I had to
help.
We all come to our lives with our set of experiences and
they become a lens through which we see our daily
activities. Living fully involves removing our "lenses" and
trying on the lenses of those whom we care for. Doing this
is an exercise in self-growth, in pushing our comfort zone,
in seeing past the writing on the wall to a new world from a
different vantage point. Then we can combine our resources
with those whom we care for, stretch our thinking, stretch
our vision, and truly find the magic that lies within a
moment.
Your Challenge:
This week make a focused effort to see things from another
person's perspective. This skill takes practice but it is
one that can truly enrich your life. Each day, try to see
something fresh from the eyes of another and see what gifts
it will bring to you.
p.s. And of course, I am sending a thank you to the
wonderful woman at the hotel who helped us. I took a photo
of Sammy with Max Cuddles Arto Bongo Whispers and had her
draw a picture to go with it.
For this kind woman who answered the phone also chose to see
this event through the eyes of a 10-year-old. About the Author
Brook Noel is an international best-selling author and has
written over 10 books. Her newest book The Change Your Life
Challenge: A 70 Day Life Makeover Program for Women has
helped thousands of women improve relationships, finances,
home management, self-esteem, fitness, self-care, stress and
depression you can visit the website at
http://www.changeyourlifechallenge.com/.
Written by: Brook Noel
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